Sunday, July 1, 2018

Kneaders and the Orange Test

June 15-21 We(Miriah, Hollie and myself) went to the Kneaders conference with Dad.  I love going the Kneaders conferences they are always so motivating and inspiring.  They would be a great company to work for.  On the last day, they had a guest speaker come, Kirk Weisler.  He did a great job, I was excited to hear him speak since I had researched him before the meeting and found out I already had one of his books - The Dog Poop initiative.  As I was looking him up, I found this story on his link, and I love it, so I don't want to forget it.  I also, I my kids would be like the seconded worker in the story. 


Passing the Orange Test- A Management Parable

I heard this parable 2 years ago and can’t stop thinking about it… I hope you find it as Juicy and a-peeling as I do.  ðŸ™‚  Sorry, couldn’t resist. ~ Kirk

The Parable of the Oranges
I would like to share a modern-day parable that I will call “The Parable of the Oranges.” As you listen, consider what this story teaches you about the power of real intent.
There was a young man who had ambitions to work for a company because it paid very well and was very prestigious. He prepared his résumé and had several interviews. Eventually, he was given an entry-level position. Then he turned his ambition to his next goal—a supervisor position that would afford him even greater prestige and more pay. So he completed the tasks he was given. He came in early some mornings and stayed late so the boss would see him putting in long hours.
After five years a supervisor position became available. But, to the young man’s great dismay, another employee, who had only worked for the company for six months, was given the promotion. The young man was very angry, and he went to his boss and demanded an explanation.
The wise boss said, “Before I answer your questions, would you do a favor for me?”
“Yes, sure,” said the employee.
“Would you go to the store and buy some oranges? My wife needs them.”
The young man agreed and went to the store. When he returned, the boss asked, “What kind of oranges did you buy?”
“I don’t know,” the young man answered. “You just said to buy oranges, and these are oranges. Here they are.”
“How much did they cost?” the boss asked.
“Well, I’m not sure,” was the reply. “You gave me $30. Here is your receipt, and here is your change.”
“Thank you,” said the boss. “Now, please have a seat and pay careful attention.”
Then the boss called in the employee who had received the promotion and asked him to do the same job. He readily agreed and went to the store.
When he returned, the boss asked, “What kind of oranges did you buy?”
“Well,” he replied, “the store had many varieties—there were navel oranges, Valencia oranges, blood oranges, tangerines, and many others, and I didn’t know which kind to buy. But I remembered you said your wife needed the oranges, so I called her. She said she was having a party and that she was going to make orange juice. So I asked the grocer which of all these oranges would make the best orange juice. He said the Valencia orange was full of very sweet juice, so that’s what I bought. I dropped them by your home on my way back to the office. Your wife was very pleased.”
“How much did they cost?” the boss asked.
“Well, that was another problem. I didn’t know how many to buy, so I once again called your wife and asked her how many guests she was expecting. She said 20. I asked the grocer how many oranges would be needed to make juice for 20 people, and it was a lot. So, I asked the grocer if he could give me a quantity discount, and he did! These oranges normally cost 75 cents each, but I paid only 50 cents. Here is your change and the receipt.”
The boss smiled and said, “Thank you; you may go.”
He looked over at the young man who had been watching. The young man stood up, slumped his shoulders and said, “I see what you mean,” as he walked dejectedly out of the office.
What was the difference between these two young men? They were both asked to buy oranges, and they did. You might say that one went the extra mile, or one was more efficient, or one paid more attention to detail. But the most important difference had to do with real intent rather than just going through the motions. The first young man was motivated by money, position, and prestige. The second young man was driven by an intense desire to please his employer and an inner commitment to be the best employee he could possibly be—and the outcome was obvious.
How can you apply this parable in your lives? How might your efforts in your family, at school, or at work?
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Now Orange you glad you have this story to share with your team?
Inspiring Initiative one orange at time.
Kirk

Sunday, March 18, 2018

Friday, February 23, 2018

February 23, 2018

Britton left today after school on his first camp out with our new ward.  It has snowed all day and they are headed to Moab area, hoping for nice weather, but it was said to have been snowing there too.  I hope that he will be warm enough, he didn’t end up taking his pad since it was to big to get into the two cars they were taking.

Sure hope he has a good time and is not frozen to death by morning He is such a good boy.


This week has been such a hard week, I sure don’t communicate with my kids very well, every time I try to talk to Hollie to encourage her to apply to college and for some scholarships she gets so defensive and makes me out to be such a bad mother.  Brady and Crystal don’t come around much an more, Bronson can’t talk to us without yelling at us.  He did start with a new counselor yesterday, I tried to ask him about it but he wouldn't talk to me about it.  

I tried to advertise a little for my new real estate job. Don’t know if I can really do it.  I know a lot of people but none that trust me that much, including my own family.

Todd and I are supposed to be working on youth Conference ideas and we can't every talk, we don’t see eye to eye on very much, we never have I guess that has been the hardest part of our marriage all these years, I wish we did things together that he has really no time for.  Heartbreaking.

Miriah is sleeping at Grandma Parrish’s again, she loved it there.  She is such an obedient young lady.  Last week I told her that she was watching too many movies on the iPad and that she needed to limit herself to only the weekend.  She has worked so hard and today when we picked her up from school she came right in and said it was a free day no homework today she was going to watch a movie.  I love that when she reads, she reads out loud.  She has developed such great study habits.

I have been thinking a lot about what my life would be like and what kind of family I would have and I sure mess it all up.  Wanting a family that loved to be together and live by the saying "family is everything", and I have kids who don’t really care to be together.  I hate the TV and wish we spent our time doing better activities.

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

Timberline winning the 9th grade Championship Feb 9, 2018 Great Season

Britton has had a fun year playing on the Timberline Middle School Basketball team.  Lots of good boys and great coaches.

Grandpa and Grandma leaving the last game of the season.
Britton cutting the net down.








Britton made the winning shot on the buzzer.  It was such an intense game  From Luke to Arron to Britton to the basket, best 10 seconds of the overtime game.
Great group of boys and so fun to watch play basketball.













Monday, November 14, 2016

Cabin Trip before Bronson Left, Time out for Women 2016



Some pillows I made for a friend.
Braxton is home and enjoying the Cabin and Kofi
Bronson and Miriah are enjoying so time together on the 4 wheeler.




Shotting a favorite pass time at the cabin














Miriah got to sing with Paul Cardall and Nathan Pacheco in the American Heritage choir, they sang the song Elder Bednar wrote One by One.  It was such an amazing night, wish all my family could have been there to hear the music and feel the spirit.  It was a very powerful night.
https://youtu.be/Jtdz0Jb2HPI

Bryton came by to wish Bronson good Luck on his mission
Uncle Randys Coca Cola Christmas display
Miriah and Sienna selling Hot Chocolate at the 6th grade store.

Miriah was lucky to be able to eat out with us.
Brady and Crystal left for Hawaii before Bronson left on his mission.

Time Out for Women is always a blast with these amazing women.
Aunt Julie, Danielle, Mary, Kelly
Lacey, Brittney, Mom, Me and Lori.